The day

Today was quite a day. Surprises at work, a car accident, an old friend made new. Read on.....

Work went well as usual. There was stress but it was a good day. I am struggling to reconcile the way I see myself treating people and how they see me treating them. Basically there was some general feedback provided and it is making me question how I am handling the people I am supposed to be helping. I always try to be patient but I know that I am often short, most especially when I feel like I am putting more into it than you are. It's like you should meet me in the middle. Luckily I have an awesome boss who is quick to point out that I am there for my development just as much as the people I am there to help. She is a very positive loving person and I believe that has much to do with her strong faith.

Husband was involved in a car accident tonight. He is already suffering from a sore back, neck and shoulders. Luckily he was in his service truck and so very well protected. The main blessing is that he was alone. He was on the way to pick up kiddo so I am thankful that she wasn't with him.

In other news, I have reconnected with a friend from work I have sort of lost contact with. She is a positive influence and on the same life path as I am. It is so important to make (and keep) contact with people who have the same beliefs and life goals as you. She is married, more or less happily - like me, she is a positive person, like I try to be, she goes to church and is in general the type of person I need to be around.

I think it is often to easy to fall into the "black pit" of being negative and unkind. It is easy to complain and fuss about life but it accomplishes nothing.

One day I will get it right.